Love in the workplace: taboo no longer

Next time youâre sitting at your desk at work, look around and try and guess who is dating, because according to a new study, thereâs a good chance almost half of them have hooked up with a colleague.
Forty per cent of Australians have dated someone at work, and apparently the majority of us donât care, the study by job site OneShift finds.
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OneShift CEO Gen George says social media and long working hours have blurred the lines between our personal and professional lives, resulting in a change in attitudes towards work relationships.
And itâs not just love thatâs in the air. Mateship rates a mention too, with experts convinced that making friends at work can help you deal with setbacks and improve your performance.
Work romances no longer taboo
Secret office romances are no longer a big deal either. At least, not among employees (your boss might think differently though.)
The OneShift survey found 80 per cent of people didnât mind if their colleagues were hooking up.
Ms George says the survey results reflect an evolution in Australian workplaces.
âMaybe 10 years ago or 15 year ago, it wouldnât have been as acceptable. I think itâs just the way of the times,â Ms George says.
âBecause people can connect 24/7, relationships are not restricted to nine-to-five in the work environment.â
Donât worry, thereâs nothing wrong with you
While thereâs always potential for awkward break-ups, Ms George says intertwined personal and professional lives arenât necessarily a bad thing.
âYouâre spending a lot more time with your colleagues, more than your friends and your family, so if you donât get along with them, itâs going to be a horrible experience,â she says.
âThe friendships you have with your colleagues are important not only to your own success, but to the success of the business and should be encouraged by employers.â
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As an employer herself, Ms George says bosses should try to foster strong bonds among their workers.
âI think rather than trying to stop it, they should embrace it.
âIf people have an emotional connection at work, or with the brand, or with their colleagues, then theyâre going to work harder, so why stop it?â
âWill you be my Facebook friend?â
Most of us donât mind being connected with colleagues on social media sites like Facebook or Instagram either, the poll found.
Eighty per cent of the 900 people surveyed thought it was acceptable to be friends with co-workers online.
Sixty per cent of people said being connected with colleagues on social media had no effect on the kind of content they shared.
âIf someone is expected to respond to emails on their smartphone or the companyâs social media channel at 10.30 at night, then the office has already invaded the home,â Ms George says.
âItâs no surprise then that with those walls breaking down, weâre more comfortable socialising with colleagues outside of work, whether thatâs online, at the local pub or cinema after work, or at the beach on the weekend.â
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