Why living with mum and dad in your 50s is smart
Would you move back in with your family to save money?
Jessica Lawson, 31, made that choice seven years ago after some âcareful conversationsâ. She now lives in a four bedroom home in Melbourne, split into three separate living areas for her and husband John, sister Emma and mother Iris.
âWe talked about it as a family and made the decision that our money would be better used in buying a property together,â Ms Lawson says.
The transition was difficult. âYou go from living three separate lives and having your own space and time out to suddenly being involved in a group house again, which I hadnât done for a while,â she says.
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What started as a âvery practicalâ financial move â to invest, save money and build a strong credit rating â turned into a perfect safety net.
One week before the house settled, Iris, 59, was diagnosed with chronic lymphatic leukaemia. Two weeks after moving in, Jessica was made redundant (she has since found another job). Six months in Emma, 28, was diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy, which has left her unable to work and with no feeling in her fingers and her legs below the knee.
âHaving the security of the home meant we could push through,â Ms Lawson says. âAnd weâve even capitalised on a low interest rate fixed for the next few years which means that even though I am the only person working now we are still ahead.â
Ms Lawson saves approximately $200 a week by share living, and doubts she would have been able to afford a home loan otherwise. Friends of hers pay $3,200 a month mortgages, compared to her $1,200 a month. Other friends cannot afford a mortgage at all.
The idea of moving back in with family in adulthood may not be a trend at the moment (although ABC Radio National did report on a similar multi-generational house in Sydney), but superannuation funds say it could be in future.
Lack of super
CEO of Club Plus Super Paul Cahill says more older Australians will look to multi-gen housing when their superannuation runs out. And it probably will run out, he says.
Recent modelling by the fund suggests that the average 65-year-old retireeâs super balance will likely be exhausted after only six years of retirement, if not earlier.
A recent report from Deloitte found that Australians need to start topping up their super with an additional 5.5 to 7.5 per cent of their salary to retire comfortably without relying on the age pension.
As super dwindles, moving back in with family will be âeconomically the best wayâ for retirees to save money and receive in-home care, Mr Cahill says.
âWith our research, we found out that as people get older they donât need the big house, but they still need support,â Mr Cahill says. âSupport is probably the more critical of the two, and how they go about achieving that support in many instances is to try and get as close to family or friends as possible.
âAs moving back in with children may be the most cost effective option for many retirees, Australia needs to prepare for this likelihood or take immediate steps to reform the superannuation system so that it is better able to support Australians wishing to enjoy a lasting and sustainable retirement,â Mr Cahill says.
Not buying it
National Seniors CEO Michael OâNeill says he does not accept Club Superâs argument, calling it âalmost alarmistâ.
âI donât accept the fundamentals of what theyâve suggested,â he says, because it understates the significance of the age pension.
But Mr OâNeill has âcertainlyâ seen an increase in Generations X and Y living at home longer, and doesnât deny that some older Australians are moving in with family.
âThere is limited evidence of senior Australians shifting back in with children. There are circumstances where thereâs care involved, where you may well find that multi generational housing is happening,â Mr OâNeill says.
For Jessica Lawson, multi-gen housing has helped her provide care for her mother and sister and invest for the future. She and her husband have no intention of moving out any time soon.
âOur intent is to continue living together after we have children so we have our own little âvillageâ raising our kids,â she says.
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