Love, Actually and whether we can actually love it

On Tuesday, British Prime Minister Boris Johnson treated journalists and satirists alike to an early Christmas present with some fresh material recycled from Love, Actually.
For a campaign video, the politician made the unusual decision to re-enact the infamous doorstep scene between Mark (Andrew Lincoln) and Juliet (Keira Knightley) in Richard Curtisās 2003 Christmas classic.
I thought Iād stumbled over a spoof video but the āVote Conservative, actuallyā homage is 100 per cent real.
It has been picked apart by political pundits and Twitter, but itās also reignited debate around whether Curtisās much-loved festive flick is worthy of our adoration.
I do remember being somewhat charmed by Love, Actually the first time I saw it ā or at least, I didnāt rush to the streets (or forums) in protest.
Maybe Iād become resigned to my fate after too much Christmas ham or perhaps my judgment was a little clouded after that second cup of eggnog.
The after-glow didnāt last long, however, and by my second viewing the film had definitely soured.
Letās take Markās hand-written address. For presumably the duration of his best friend Peterās relationship with Juliet, Mark is a jerk to Juliet.
But because she loves Peter (Chiwetel Ejiofor) and Mark is his best friend, she puts up with it.
Juliet ā played by Knightley when she was still 17, which is also a bit off-putting ā later discovers that rather than video the coupleās wedding, Mark actually took close-up zooms of her face. Riiiiight ā¦
He decides to put his own desire before his friendās marriage and shows up at Julietās house on Christmas Eve with a ghetto blaster and placard signs.
In a series of hand-written notes (one including cut-out magazine images of Kylie Minogue and fashion models), he confesses his āloveā for her while Juliet silently listens in the doorframe.
He walks off into the snow, she kisses him, and, in a gesture I think Curtis intends to be āhonourableā, he says āEnough nowā.
So, the woman is at first silent but complicit, then when she shows some reaction is rejected. Itās weird. Itās uncomfortable. It hasnāt stood the test of time.
When developing the scene, Curtis ran a few ideas by female co-workers to work out what was āromanticā and what was āoff-puttingā, he told Elle.
If this one made the cut, I donāt like to think whatās on the cutting floor.
The scene isnāt just creepy, itās dangerous.
In her wonderfully titled 2013 āI Rewatched Love, Actually and Am Here to Ruin It for All of Youā feminist Lindy West addressed the filmmaker directly.
āThank you for telling a generation of men that their intrusiveness and obsessions are āromanticā, and that women are secretly flattered no matter what their body language says,ā she said.
Her article defines the movieās central moral lesson as āthe less a woman talks, the more lovable she isā.
Itās a fabulously sweary review with West ultimately describing the famous scene as the āartistic low point of the 21st centuryā.
While Love, ActuallyĀ is a perennial on āBest Ofā lists for Christmas and rom-com fans, itās also fallen prey to the ravages of time ā or more precisely, been scrutinised more closely with each repeat viewing.
Even Lincoln has changed his mind.
Six years ago, he called the scene ābeautifulā and āmarvellousā but by 2017 confessed to EW,Ā āI kept saying to Richard [Curtis], āAre you sure Iām not going to come off as a creepy stalker?āā
Curtis had hindsight doubts: āRetroactively, Iām aware that Andrewās role was on the edge.ā
How can we actually love Love, Actually?
To wilfully misquote creepy Mark, to me, itās imperfect.
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