The household chore taking the world by storm

Organisation consultant and de-cluttering extraordinaire Marie Kondo has convinced millions of people of the value of tidying with her bestselling book, The Life-changing Magic of Tidying.
Translated into over 30 languages, Kondoâs work as a professional tidier has even seen her included on Time magazineâs list of the worldâs â100 Most Influential Peopleâ.
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Put simply, the Kondo method involves discarding the things we donât need in life, and keeping only things that âspark joyâ.
That means itâs time to part with that dress that hasnât fit you for five years, or those tennis shoes that have been gathering dust.
According to Kondo, ridding yourself of extra baggage will not only liberate your room â it will make you a more confident and successful version of yourself.
There is no denying that some of Kondoâs tactics are a little kooky. Her method relies on the idea that objects have a spirit, and should be treated with respect.
This means Kondo always âgreetsâ a house by kneeling on the floor and stroking the floorboards with her hands, and âenergisesâ books by tapping them one by one and whispering to them.
Regardless of whether you buy into the entire Kondo method, we spoke to an expert about whether a little de-cluttering could be just what we all need.
Donât put too much pressure on yourself
Psychologist and author of Turning 30: How to Get the Life You Really Want Elle Jackson says reducing the amount of clutter in our lives has its benefits, but we should avoid a one-size-fits-all mentality.
âDecluttering and simplifying can reduce anxiety and make us feel calmer and more in control of our environment,â says Ms Jackson.
âThe key is to do it because we really want to and because we can see the benefits. Donât do it just because you feel that you should.â
For example, not everyone will be suited to Kondoâs very specific folding methods, which encourage stacking across a drawer instead of from top to bottom.
While one of Kondoâs book chapters is actually titled âDonât Change the Method to Suit Your Personalityâ, Ms Jackson says we should be aware of our own personal needs and preferences around the house.
âWeâre either tidy people by nature or weâre not,â she says.
âIf youâre not a naturally tidy person then accept that and work with it rather than trying to force something that doesnât come naturally to you.â
Nostalgia is not your friend
Ever wondered why you canât manage to let go of that stack of birthday cards from ten years ago?
According to Kondo, we keep sentimental items for too long because of the fear that âweâll lose the previous memories with themâ.
âTruly precious memories will never vanish even if you discard the objects associated with them,â she writes.
Jackson agrees: âMemories are in our minds, not in items.â
She suggests performing a simple pros and cons exercise if youâre stuck on a particular item, and asking yourself why youâve been holding on for so long.
What are you aiming for?
If a life of minimalism isnât for you, then the Kondo method probably isnât what youâre looking for.
Plenty of people are happy living with un-matched socks and t-shirts that never get used but may one day come in handy.
âFor some people cleanliness, tidiness and a lack of clutter is very important and anything otherwise will cause them anxiety,â says Jackson.
âFor others itâs not important at all and they happily live with clutter and chaos.â
The trickiest part? Living with someone whose values clash with yours.
âThatâs when you need to make compromises,â she says.
How to makeover your life the Marie Kondo way:
⢠Does it spark joy? If not, get rid of it.
⢠Designate a place for each thing.
⢠Tackle clutter by categories, not rooms.
⢠Fold, donât hang.
⢠Pursue ultimate simplicity.
⢠Empty your bag everyday.
⢠Appreciate your possessions.
Watch Marie Kondoâs method in action below:
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